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Eric Ho's avatar

Driving in heat without a/c? You're brave! I would have drowned in sweat!

Love the new name. It sums up your writing style and ideas! And what better way to begin than with that JRE episode!

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Arman Khodadoost's avatar

Haha we eventually turned the A/C off and drove through the 100 degree heat with the windows down because that was cooler somehow. Thank you Eric. I hope to live up to the new name. Let me know what you think of that episode!

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

That episode of JRE should be mandatory listening for everyone.

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Arman Khodadoost's avatar

Absolutely. I love having my beliefs shattered by someone who takes a risk to go against the mainstream. And I love how RFKJ repeatedly said, "I'm not asking you to take my word for anything."

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

...some good stairs tips hidden in here (https://wagwalking.com/training/use-stairs) ...never had that issue but with other phobias I have found that treats/care and practice is the best approach with getting the doggos over it...if you ever need to teach a dog to swim find a not fast river with a small crossing and swim to the other side with treats...make it a game with a reward and over time they learn to love it...but doesn't work with every dog...good luck!!

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Arman Khodadoost's avatar

Thank you my friend. Unfortunately that link isn't working for me. I read a bit of "Don't shoot the dog" and it helped me realize that animals respond much better to rewards than punishments. But I've started trying a few things and will report back.

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

Fixed the link :)

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Karena's avatar

Stubbornly staying put in your clan, Armand. Because these are the conversations I want to listen to, the debates i want to have

What was your phrase? More curious, less furious.

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Arman Khodadoost's avatar

It's a pleasure to have you stick around Karena. Yes! We could all use a little more curiosity and a little less furiosity (if that's a word).

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Rick Lewis's avatar

I've had Ryan Holiday's book sitting on my shelf for years. Great reminder to pick this up and get into it. Re your poor dog Xena that's a perplexing dilemma. But what is clear is that continuing to stair at her won't fix the problem.

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Arman Khodadoost's avatar

That entire trilogy of his is worth reading. If you like The Obstacle then check out Ego is the enemy and Stillness is the key afterwards. Haha I have daily conversations with her trying to convince her that stairs won't kill her but she looks at me like I'm a big fat liar.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Oh wow, didn't know that was a Trilogy. Will check it out.

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Arman Khodadoost's avatar

Oh wow thank you Nadia. I will dig into this and report back if anything helps!

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